Faheema's Box

Auricular Acupuncture    The best of believers is a strong believer. That means, spiritually, physically and very importantly, emotionally strong. Healing from the effects of negative emotions is imperative as it affects the way we deal with people and respond to life situations.  It affects  the way we view and experience our time here on earth. When we look through eyes of love and light, we will be met with love and light. But if we are to look through eyes of anger and hatred, that is what we will be met with.  In order to be successful in our attempts of imbibing Haqiqa Muhammadiya we have to let go of the past and trust in Allah about the present and the future. At times this is easier said than  done. How does a person heal. Firstly by strengthening our connection with Allah, as Allah says “ Except in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find contentment”. Allah has created the human body with the ability of healing itself from anything. Human beings a...

  1. Waking up 20 minutes before Fajr  Your soul needs this time with its Lord. A time to connect with Allah without any distractions. At least 2 raka'a Tahajud and Sincere Dua.  Have an early start to the day. Plan your day. Be more productive.  The early start is a huge life hack. It's gives you more time to achieve your goals.  2. Writing down your thoughts before bed. Writing before bed will improve your quality of sleep.  Here's what you can write down : -Your goals for tomorrow -What you're grateful for -Any negative thoughts  This will improve your mental health dramatically.  3. Learning a skill - 30 minutes a day  Use Udemy or any other platform.  Coupon Code is available for free Udemy courses. No excuses.  4. Spend 1 hour a day exercising.  To have good mental health your also must have good physical health.  Do exercises the strengthen an tone your body like:- Rebounding  Skipping Swimming  5. Sit in ...

 Overthinking Sometimes when the mind is in control, then a person might have looping negative thoughts... Thoughts create  feelings. Negative thoughts create negative feelings. Everytime  a negative thought comes to mind, you must take control and say to the mind  " Positive Thoughts only, please"  then while bringing a smile to your lips, take slower deeper breaths, start saying Salawaat /Durood continuously.  Salawaat has cooling and Calming properties. Except in the remembrance of your Lord, does the heart find peace. May your remembrance of your Lord  fill you heart, body and soul with His choicest Peace and Blessings.  Lots of love ♥️ Faheema 

Chemistry and compatibility in relationships. While chemistry is great, compatibility is way more important. The thing with chemistry is that if you add 1 wrong chemical, you can have an explosion. And a person can loose an eye like that. So what is compatibility. It's not about liking all the same things. It's about each person being themselves and having their own interests but establishing a way of communicating and being willing to make compromises in order to find middle ground to make it work. Establishing this right from the beginning of the relationship is key. Even if it is different ways of communicating. Communication is imperative. Don't hold it all in. Don't suppress your emotions. Communicate them with love and care. May every marriage be blessed and filled with love and mercy. 

When a person says that they hate everything. Everything in their life will be in a way that they hate. So prepare yourself for this. It's a hard road. Hate is the opposite of love & gratitude. Love and gratitude brings abundance and blessings As soon as a person says that they love everything, everything in their lives will turn out in a way that they love. Take care of your words. They create your reality. And the choice is yours .

Great things, like kisses and smiles, hugs and Belgian chocolate ice-cream. Baby's toes, cupids bow's. Fills my heart and melts my sorrows. I'm sorry if i ever hurt you. It was never part of my plan. All I ever wanted, was to be true... Sometimes I get it wrong, But it was never part of the plan...  I'll keep trying, to be the best I can be. For me, for you, amd the Almighty. The stars are shining, And I'm so grateful. Time is passing, but I'm getting younger. So excited for whats to come. Stand up strong, Coz the wind will blow, But at times know that you just gotta let go.   With the strength of a lion  and the courage of a bear. Mend all the heartache, coz in the end its all fair. There will be justice. So keep hope, be honest and care. There's endless mercy, unrecognized by most. The day we stand up with our Master as the Host

The purpose of our creation is to worship Allah. And to worship Him in everything that we do. This a form of awareness. Awareness of Allah, in our daily lives and activities. Being aware allows us to exist in a more thoughtful manner. Being thoughtful gives us the opportunity to live the best life we can live, remembering Allah throughout. This develops our spiritually and strengthens our connection with Allah. Gearing us to be the best that we can be. But when we forget the purpose of our creation and forget the reason that Allah has placed us here and we then live in carefree manner. That's when things start going a bit haywire. Humans are holistic beings, comprising of physical, mental, emotional and spiritually areas. We need to develop all these areas of ourselves in order for us to function optimally. The truth is that most of us are developed in all the areas but not in the spiritual aspect of life. This puts us on the back foot as in this life we are tested. And in or...

The state of our world today,  is a sad one.  Filled with anger, hatred, greed and more.  The injustice leaves me speechless at time when II should be speaking out. What are our options? As I look for answers all around,  I find them in a very special place.  A place where all the answers are... Another of the favours of my Lord... His promise to be with me wherever I may be... So He answers my question, thus: Be the best that you can be,  do the best that you can do... So I'll smile and be kind and be helpful to one and all to the best of my ability. And I'll pray, everyday and breath, deeply and learn to understand. These are my options. What are yours?

1. Perform every Salaah on time, with as much concentration as possible. Keeping in mind that we have come to stand infront of Allah. He is looking at us and hearing us. Waiting for us to ask of Him so that He can give what we want. 2. Recite a consistent amount of QUR'AN each day with translation and ponder the meaning. Take the msg! 3. Muraaqaba - 10 mins after fajr and after isha 4. 100 Istighfaar - morning and evening. 5. 100 FIRST Kalima - morning and evening. 6.100 Durood - morning and evening. Ya Allah you have made is easy for us. Grant us the dedication and love to be consistant. Inshalla Aameen.

In the words of a Very Special little 5 year old. "when you are in Salaah you are talkin to Allah. When you are reading Quraan, Allah is talking to you"

I have been wondering why Allah in His Infinite Wisdom, Mercy and Love has given me Ramadaan. I know that Allah is Most WISE, so what is the Wisdom of Ramadaan? I know that Allah is Most MERCIFUL, So what is the Mercy of this month? I also know that Allah Loves me so WHY DO I HAVE TO STAY HUNGRY FOR 30 DAY!! i went to the Quraan and I found Allah Saying " O you who believe, fasting has been  ordained for you, as it has been ordained for those before you, So that you may GAIN TAQWA". I now had to find out what TAQWA is. The dictionary said :- to protect and strengthen. Looking deeper i found this to mean : Protecting my heart from the challenge of my Nafs.Protecting my heart by Connecting it to Allah. Therefore giving me the strength to obey HIM and stay away from that which displeases HIM. Looking even deeper, this 1 Ayah tells me that :- Allah wants me to be close to HIM He wants me to remember HIM He wants me to be a better human being He wants me, not just to be a Muslim...

“STAND FIRM AGAINST EVIL THOUGHTS, for if you fail to do so, they will become ideas, if you do not, they will become desires, so fight against them. If you do not, they will become a form of determination and intention, if you do not RESIST, they will become actions, and if you do not follow them up with their opposite, they will become habits that will be hard to quit.” [ibn Al-Qayyim – From his book "Al Fawwaid"]

We should not aim for perfection, We should aim for Allah and then Insha Allah we will reach perfection. Every action and every intention should be for Allah, then every action is an act of worship.To exist in this state is Imaan. Who am I and, What kind of a person am I being , from Allah's view? We have got to keep this in mind at all times. Acceptance, Acknowledgement and Surrendering to the Will of Allah

Sincerity in our actions and words is extremely important for our deeds to be accepted. The Messenger of Allah (saw) said: "Verily, the reward of deeds depends upon the Niyyah (intentions) and every person will get the reward according to what he has intended." Therefore, every action that was not performed totally and completely for Allah’s Sake, and invalid and is of no use or benefit in this life and the Hereafter. The meaning for Niyyah is knowing the difference between the intention behind the act – A. if it is directed to Allah Alone B. to Allah and others This meaning carries with it A. happiness or misery B. reward or punishment. For example, two different persons might perform the same act, putting in the same amount of effort to it but one of them earns a reward while the other earns no reward, or even punishment, because the intentions were different in each case. Some scholars said that this is why people are at different levels (in the sight of Allah...

Treat your life-partner the way you would like your children to be treated by theirs, And only to seek the pleasure of The Master - And may the blessings of your good intentions culminate success in every instance. God Willing.

Look to those who are 'minal muqaraboon' close to Allah, and make an intention that this child follows in the footstep of that person whose name you have chosen. If you dont chose any of those names then look at a name book or the internet.when looking in the book, look at the the meanings first and choose the best meaning and then look at the name itself and then make sure that name will be pronounced correctly by those in your community. Say a little prayer everyday for the character of your child as well as piety, protection, good health and the blessing of Allah.