Chemistry and compatibility in relationships

Chemistry and compatibility in relationships.

While chemistry is great, compatibility is way more important.
The thing with chemistry is that if you add 1 wrong chemical, you can have an explosion. And a person can loose an eye like that.

So what is compatibility.
It's not about liking all the same things.
It's about each person being themselves and having their own interests but establishing a way of communicating and being willing to make compromises in order to find middle ground to make it work. Establishing this right from the beginning of the relationship is key.
Even if it is different ways of communicating.
Communication is imperative.

Don't hold it all in. Don't suppress your emotions.
Communicate them with love and care.

May every marriage be blessed and filled with love and mercy. 

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